First off, I want to do a little introduction and say a few things about myself. I’ve been married for 16 years to a wonderful woman whom I love very much. We have two kids and I love spending time with them. My wife has a regular 9 to 5 office job and I have a job that requires me to work long hours, but that pays me very well. Having said that, I have felt like something was missing for a long time. My wife had lost a lot of her sex drive after we had the kids and I found the lack of sexual attention was driving me to lust after women in my life who I shouldn’t be: my assistant, my sister-in-law, several of my friends’ wives… I started to consider looking for sex outside my marriage, but I thought that having an affair would be impossible with my schedule. NoStringsAttached proved me wrong and showed me how to have an affair with ease!
Honestly, I cannot recommend NoStringsAttached enough. There was something like 3,000,000 members when I joined up a few months ago, and I can only imagine there are even more now. The whole idea of the site is right there in their name-No Strings Attached-so you only meet people who are looking for married dating or casual sex. Either way you won’t find anyone who is looking to start a relationship and settle down. NoStringsAttached is the perfect site for someone like me, someone who is looking for a hot affair, someone who is looking for a local affair, and someone who is looking for an affair that will fit their schedule.
Joining The Site
From what I remember, joining NoStringsAttached was very simple. I selected that I was a married man and that I was looking for a woman. They had options for the woman about whether I was looking for a single woman or a married woman, but I didn’t have a preference so I selected them both. Then I just had to give an email address for them to send the confirmation to. Once you get online they will suggest things that you can do (work on your profile, upgrade your account, etc.), but they will not force you to do anything until you want to.
Results After 3 Months Online
- 297 messages sent
- 224 responses received
- 8 dates
- 4 sexual encounters
- 1 amazing affair
I don’t think I send as many messages as the average user because of my busy schedule, but even so, you can see that 75% (yes, I older women dating sign up just did the math!) of all the messages I sent got replies. From those 224 replies, I managed to fit eight offline dates into my schedule. From those eight dates, I managed to turn four into something more. And from those four sexual encounters, I managed to find an amazing woman who I wanted to see again. I now see her regularly, but I still continue to message other women on NoStringsAttached because it’s fun and I never know when I might need to connect with someone new.
Even though I am successful on NoStringsAttached, I don’t think that I am any kind of expert on affair dating. To be completely honest with you, I think the real experts here are the people behind NoStringsAttached. All I did was follow the tips they gave me throughout my experience and I’m convinced that that made all the difference. So…
- Listen To The Site: As you start to use NoStringsAttached, you will notice that reminders will pop up to ask you if you are ready to do things. Pay attention to these, as they are all for your benefit! One example I have is the reminders about filling out different sections of my profile page and uploading a profile photo. Once I had those complete, my message response rate skyrocketed!